Frequently Asked Questions & Terminolgy

Welcome to Our FAQs & Terminology Page

Here, you'll find answers to common questions about the City of Sonoma's cemeteries, including available plots, urn placements, and how to honor veterans at the Veterans Memorial Park. Whether you're exploring burial options or searching for information on interment processes, this resource is designed to guide you through the details.

In addition, our terminology section offers clear definitions of key cemetery-related terms, from 'columbarium' to 'vault.' This glossary will help you better understand the language used in burial services and interment rights, making your experience as informed and seamless as possible.

Frequently Asked Questions

If you would like to secure a full casket plot or a crypt, please contact us to be added to our waitlist.

The cemetery is expanding its capacity to ensure that we can accommodate everyone who wants to make Sonoma their final resting place. While we currently do not have available options for in-ground or above-ground casket interments, we want to know your specific needs so that we can appropriately plan for future space.  Email cemeteries@sonomacity.org or call  (707) 933-2240.

Yes, both Mountain and Valley Cemeteries offer in-ground cremain placement.

We currently have niches available for cremation interment in the Annex portion of Mountain Cemetery; however, that is currently the only option for above-ground cremation interment. We have started a waitlist for anyone interested in the future availability of crypts and niches for both casket and cremation interment options and encourage you to reach out to us to be placed on the waitlist for new development opportunities.

Please call (707) 933-2240 or email cemeteries@sonomacity.org 

Contact us by calling (707) 933-2240 or email cemeteries@sonomacity.org .

If you provide us with legal names, we will check our records and provide what we have on locations, if we have the information on file. Please note that record-keeping practices from the early 1800’s and 1900’s were different than they are today, and some records may be incomplete, or we may not have records beyond a certain timeframe.

Additionally, people may access historical information from the walking tour map, which highlights well-known winemakers, farmers, longtime valley residents, and the location of General Vallejo’s gravesite. Other resources to find burial information may also be found by visiting websites such as Ancestry.com and FindaGrave.com. Some people have found relatives by finding family grave markers that they had no idea existed.

The contact for the engraving for the star is not through the City of Sonoma. The contact is through VeteransRememberedFlag.com. All information can be found on this web site.

The Veterans Memorial Cemetery is not a national cemetery and is owned and operated by the City of Sonoma, whereas a National Veterans Cemetery is operated by the Department of Veterans Affairs, which funds the burials for veterans wishing to be interred at those locations. Public cemeteries, such as our Veterans Memorial Cemetery, do not receive government funding for burials and thus must charge to cover operating costs.  Many families choose to bury at our Veterans Memorial Cemetery because they prefer to have their loved ones close by, instead of driving distances to the nearest National Veterans Cemeteries.

 

The Veterans Memorial Park is for veterans who have served their country. They must have discharge papers in order to be buried in that cemetery.  The spouse may be buried with the Veteran however no other family members (eg. sisters, brothers, daughters, sons, etc.) may be interred.

We take checks, cashier’s checks, credit cards or cash. The checks should be made payable to the City of Sonoma. For payment plans, please Cemeteries Manager, Carolyn Fulton.

Cemetery Termiology

Burial – Placement of human remains into a grave in the ground, either in a casket or urn

Burial Permit – A required document that allows human remains to be buried or cremated. CA State Law requires a VS-9 Burial Permit, typically furnished by a licensed funeral home. See also: Permit for Disposition

Casket – A container to hold human remains for full body interment

Columbarium – A structure with niches (spaces) for placement of cremated remains in urns or other approved containers. It may be outdoors or part of a mausoleum.
See also: Niche

Crypt – A space in a mausoleum to hold a casket with human remains

Decedent – A person who has died.

Disposition – The placement of human remains in their final resting place.

Endowment Care Fund – Money collected from cemetery property purchases and placed into trust for the maintenance and upkeep of the cemetery.

Entombment – Interment of human remains into a crypt

Family Plot – A private, in-ground area in a cemetery purchased by a single family, reserved for the burial of that family, typically consisting of 2 or more graves.

Family (Private) Mausoleum – A private, above-ground structure built to entomb multiple members of a family.

Grave – A space in the ground within a cemetery for the burial of human remains.
See also: Plot

Grave Liner – A container for a casket or cremation burials meant to minimize the settling or collapsing of a grave. See also: Outer Burial Container, Vault

Grave Marker – A flat, decorative plaque, typically made of stone or metal that sits at the head of a grave to memorialize the deceased.
See also: Marker

Graveside Service – A service conducted at the interment location to commemorate the deceased

Headstone – A decorative, upright grave marker, typically made of stone with the deceased’s name, dates, etc.
See also: Monument

Interment – Any type of burial, such as burial in the ground, entombment in a mausoleum, inurnment in a niche, or scattering in a designated area of a cemetery.
See also: Opening/Closing

Interment Rights – The right to be buried in a specific location in a cemetery plot, crypt, or niche.

Inurnment – Interment of cremated remains in a niche or columbarium.

Marker – A flat, decorative plaque, typically made of stone or metal that sits at the head of a grave to memorialize the deceased. See also: Grave Marker

Mausoleum – A building in which human remains are interred.

Memorial Service – A ceremony commemorating the deceased at a time other than interment

Monument – A decorative, upright grave marker, typically made of stone that sits at the head of a grave to memorialize the deceased.
See also: Headstone

Niche – A space in a columbarium, mausoleum, or niche wall to hold an urn. See also: Columbarium

Opening/Closing – A service performed by cemetery staff that involves the preparation and completion of a grave, crypt, or niche, whether by back-filling a grave or replacing the shutter of a crypt or niche.

Outer Burial Container - A container for casket or cremation burials that is meant to minimize settling or collapsing of a grave. See also: Grave Liner, Vault

Permit for Disposition – A required document that allows human remains to be buried or cremated. CA State Law requires a VS-9 Burial Permit. See also: Burial Permit

Plot - Grave – A space in the ground within a cemetery for burial of human remains.
See also: Grave

Shutter – The outer front of a crypt or niche, typically made of stone or glass, and used to memorialize the deceased.

Urn – A container to hold cremated remains. Urns may be placed in a columbarium, niche, or may also be buried in the ground.

Vault – A grave liner that completed encloses a casket.
See also: Grave Liner, Outer Burial Container

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